M.O.T.I.V.A.T.I.O.N

Assalammualaikum  and happy new year dears.*hope this isn't too late to wish everyone*Been very..very..very..busy this year..when it comes to realization of my thousand lists/dreams,i have to really be focus* please pray that i won't give up nor step back during the journey,ameen*

Anyway,let's not talk about new year resolutions since it has become too cliche topics to mumble about..Let talk about motivation instead,shall we? Each year we will definitely has some sort of resolution/wishlists/dreams/target,etc..whatever you may call it right?..I was before,..having the same thing called resolutions/wishlists,..etc..but Sadly enough for me* not sure bout you guys,..i manage to cut down half of the list*sigh*..

So this year instead of creating a new one,i wanted to follow those 101 wishlists that i list down after this 1 course in July 2013 as my master plan list. Of course that list doesn't focus on 2014 only but a few years down the road. Am i smart or what*ahaks* When it comes to realization of our dreams, we seldom associate the dream with the drive or motivational factors to keep us energized, and work  towards achieving the dream. Hence when the WHY factor as to the need to achieve the dream is in't that BIG or IMPORTANT, we usually work halfway instead of really pushing the efforts to the maximum as we can.

Let me share with you 1 of my wish list, my ultimate dream after giving birth is to be a Work At Home Mother (WAHM)/ Stay At Home Mother (SAHM). The biggest WHY i wanted to be SAHM so bad is my son. I've missed lotss..i mean really a lottttt of the precious moment with him..I didn't watch his first step, my baby sitter did.. i missed his first word..and i missed the very first time he started calling mama..*in which a bit heart breaking moment when he called me 'MAK' instead of 'MAMA'..course he used to call the babysitter MAK to differentiate between me n her..But i guess that the whole price i had to pay for leaving my 1.6 yo son with babysitter for more than 8hours 5days a week.*tears inside* Sadly due to some financial commitment i am unable to make this dream come true now* at least not at the point am writing this* Thus i am now working towards making it possible to be with him. I've started my small mini project, my dessert project and etc.Those has become promising income generating source over the time. Of course, there's a proverb saying 'They dont built ROME in a day" So do wealth creation,my friends

Hence, let us all search for our biggest WHY to help us achieve our dream and as a DRIVE to motivate us to work harder in achieving our DREAM.Oh ya, don't forget to pray as well, as ALLAH has promised to grant success when we have put our very best effort in achieving our goal.Ameen.

P/S: Sorry if this post is a bit boring and formal..Just my 2 cent ('',)

The power of G.I.V.I.N.G

assalammualaikum everyone..okay, I was supposed to update my blog like everyday but it turns out the other way around,anyway..it's been almost a month now..

We're approaching Sya'aban, and that means we're almost near to Ramadhan n Syawal *it's a bit too much to talk about Raya*..tonight I would love to share about some topics that most of us already known, but we often take this for granted..

Have you ever been in the situation where you have just enough of resources/money/or food and at the same time your friend/colleague/neighbour or even your spouse is facing the same difficulties?Also when there's just enough money to spend for the rest of the month when someone knocked on your door asking for charity, of course being in that situation you might turn that down and let them pass without even giving them any single cents from your pocket since you think you yourself have is 'suffering'?

Well, of course being like almost everyone in this world..we usually donate when we have lotsssss of money or we only plan to donate or do charity when we have lotssss?? Right? I've been to like 4 motivation/self development/business marketing classes. I've learnt that THE MORE WE GIVE THE MORE WE GET BACK,.Does that sound familiar to you? If yes,then you might have attended in one of those classes that I've attended.*high 5 sket*LOL

And haaaaa..the best that you donate/give charity when you are at your worst..hahahah* kinda strange but that's what I've learnt as well*..you see ALLAH will give more of what you asked from HIM when you GIVE to NEEDY at the times that you cannot even imagine yourself having no money to spent with..this has happened to me once, and since then I BELIEVE that the more I GAVE the MORE i'll GET..I had my last few hundred bucks in my account when I saw this 1 posts in my FB asking for a donation for this surau renovation. At that time I was thinking of just ignoring the post, but I could not resist to give some though I have so little money. But I TRUELY BELIEVE that there'll be more rezki for me than this few hundred bucks.Then I just did it..i gave up most of the last few hundred for charity.

ALHAMDULLILAH..to my surprise, I made my sales after that..just after I did that..i was so thankful to ALLAH for open my heart and I am now BELIEVE that if I want MORE( anything) I have TO GIVE MORE..and that what I have practised so far,..and I am now SHARE this so that you can GIVE MORE too. Don't be afraid to GIVE MORE, because ALLAH will REWARD you MORE.Trust me!

p/s: Try to activate your GIVING mode by making the GIVING as a weekly routine as a start..* I did that too * sooner it will become a habit..a GOOD ONES (^_^)v

jUSt wHen yOu ThinK YOu haD a bAD dAy,thInK agaiN...

As salam to all, so it's Monday again..duhh it's like a very veryvery short weekend..because i haven't enjoy much last weekend..so i don't feel like Monday-ing today..Oh well, it's not just that..

My monday began with a short-drama moment when i misplace my house keys..ya,i must admit that i have this habit of keeping/putting small,important items all over improper place..for instance i've kept my car keys together with the shopping recycle bags that i bring to office each day* usually it happens when i tapau some food from home to the office..n yes, thanks to this 'good' habit of mine, i've lost my pre-engagement gold ring *tears*..

Anyways,not only that because i've totally forgot where i kept my house keys,it's a bunch of all important keys by the way..i've called for SOS externally..luckily that rescuer came soonest than i thought..then when i arrived office,it seems like everybody was lazying n wandering around..chatting like they are having some sort of social party or get-together thingy..ahahaha..so,our internet connection was down due to raining,thunder n lightning n all a night before..i was sooo not in the mood,..

To add more 'spice'to my monday..my boss came up with the short-notice ideas about a project..that project requires integration as well as quickest planning n such..as i was still in no-mood mixed up feelings..am unable to respond directly to him nor to activey taking part in discussion*not to mention my hungriness kept my brain shut*...

Then another boss came to me,yelling about some wrong reporting whatsoever..my patience level when down n i started to respond drastically to her..ya i know..i shouldn't..but i cant help it..it just too much..first is the big boss then another boss...hey,gimme a break la..it's only 11am..whatever it is...it does ruined my entire day..

Over lunch i barely talk to anyone as i'm afraid the not-so happy conversation continues after i had a soft argument with the 2nd boss...after lunch,there came my co-worker informing as well as reminding about the 1 and a halfday meeting/discussion a.k.a pre-business course which will beheld this christmas..Ahaaaa..what a day,..i was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo frustrated and having on-thespot decision..am so gonna resign..i'm so dont wanna be at the office at that moment..it's either going back home or simply just runaway from the situation..*unfortunately that's the last thing i'll do*..

When i got back home later that evening, i told my husband that am resigning..am preparing resignation letter and definitely will be submitting that this wednesday..my husband was giggling all the way as he could never believe me..trust me,i dont trust myself either...huhuhuhu..am soo hoping that i could have just resign..*double sigh*..by the way my husband found my house keys..i actually kept it in my handback in the small compartment/slot....this is so ridiculous! i've searched twice this morning..huaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..

Anyway,here i am updating my whole bad day..atleast tomorrow is a public holiday..i have a whole day to be clinging by my baby..

my baby boy is now a happy and healthy 6mths old baby

 

p/s: the-i-wanted-to update  my blog everyday has not really worked out..so hard to consistently update when you have a limited ownself time.

 

 

Dunia semakin kecil

As salam semua..salam sejahtera salam keamanan,semoga semua saudara seislam kita di Palestin dilindungiNYA daripada serangan zionis israel..

dewasa kini*cuba untuk memartabatkan bahasa melayu yang sangat kaya dengan keseniannya*..kesan daripada gelombang arus teknologi yang semakin menggila dunia dirasakan semakin kecil..sebab kenapa saya berkata demikian adalah kerana wujudnya laman sosial di alam maya seperti friendster,hi5,etc..sebelum era facebook..kita dapat berhubung dengan rakan taulan,saudara dekat jauh melalui laman sosial ini..tentunya ada kesan +ve dan -ve dalam semua perkara di dunia ini termasuklah penggunaan laman sosial ini.

Ok,kesan positifnya adalah seperti berikut..dapat memanjangkan silaturrahim sesama umat  manusia..terutamanya,kawan-kawan sekolah rendah,tadika semuanya dapat berjejak kasih di facebook..tetiba mulalah ramai friend2 yang kadang bukan friend pun terjadi friend..itulah antara kesan positif yang maha bagusnya..bukan itu saja,tiba-tiba bila keluar rumah hujung minggu pergi ke sesuatu majlis,maka makin ramai kenalan akan kita jumpai samada kenalan lama atau baru

Saya terpanggil untuk menulis mengenai kesan kewujudan laman sosial ini disebabkan insiden yang berlaku pada hujung minggu yang lalu.Saya menghadiri sebuah seminar motivasi di Shah Alam bersama rakan artis saya*eh!tetiba aku jadik retis la pulaks*..walaupun keadaan dewan berkenaan sarat dengan umat manusia,di celah2 keramaian itu maka saya ternampak seseorang yang saya kenali..dari tepi memang sah!rakan sekerja di syarikat lama saya dahulu..malangnya saya gagal mengingati semula nama beliau..tiba waktu rehat, tatkala semua hadirin berpusu-pusu keluar dewan, saya berasak-asak menuju ke rakan saya tadi..tujuannya hanya satu..ingin bertegur sapa..akhirnya saya berjaya mencuit bahu beliau..walaupun saya masih mengingati rupa beliau,saya gagal mengingati namanya..beliau juga tidak mengingati saya,..mungkin juga kami kurang rapat semasa bekerja di syarikat lama dahulu,setelah beberapa sesi soal jawab untuk recall kembali siapa saya dan dia,maka kami mula bercerita tentang kehidupan kini

Rakan saya yang datang bersama saya telah lama menunggu di sebelah,maka saya meminta diri untuk beredar memandangkan kami sama-sama mempunyai waktu rehat yang terhad sebelum masuk ke dewan semula..tiba-tiba salah seorang rakan saya bertanya tentang siapa kenaan saya sebentar tadi..rupa-rupanya,rakan pejabat saya ini hairan kenapa ramai benar kenalan saya dimerata-rata tempat*oh ya ini mengingatkan saya mengenai pertemuan semula saya dengan rakan di sekolah rendah dalam satu mesyuarat pembangunan sistem di tempat kerja* mungkin sebab itulah rakan ini mengganggap yang saya punyai ramai kenalan. Saya hanya mampu tersenyum,kerana saya memang mudah mengingati rupa seseorang.Maka setiap kali berjumpa seseorang yang saya kenal,saya akan cuba menegur..tak salah mengeratkan siaturrahim

Setibanya kami di kafeteria,sebelum menuju ke arah makanan saya terpandang seseorang yang agak saya kenali..rupa2nya beliau salah seorang senior saya di sekolah menengah dahulu..*tergelak saya dalam hati* kalaulah rakan pejabat saya tahu,mungkin dia akan kata ramai lagi kenalan saya.

Macam dah habis tatabahasa melayu yang cantek2,jadi saya akan guna bahasa rojak penang pulak ye? nak dipendekkan cerita saya ingat senior tu pon sebab dia friend2 dengan saya dalam FB..jadinya dengan FB dunia semakin keciks..itu yang sebnornye..ate teman udoh letih menaip ni,mohle kite rehat/tido ye yong?..selamat malam semua,salam keamanan

p/s: rasa macam tengah tuis hikayat hapa jer separuh masa pertama tadi haha

Akhirnya,mula menulis kembali

As salam dan selamat malam Malaysia..semoga semua umat manusia di Malaysia hidup dalam keadaan aman,sejahtera dan gembira.. n to all muslims Salam Maal Hijrah..sepatutnya kita bersyukur kerana kita masih lagi bernafas hari ni..*as compared to those our brothers n sisters in Palestine that still fighting for their life,wherever they are there*

Dah lama tak menulis,tetiba tulis terus cerita pasal Palestin dan Gaza yang ditindas..ini semuanya sebab rata2 friend2 lam FB mula post status sedih dana insaf lam FB..yes,we should be grateful n thankful that we're still happily breathing in this peaceful country..alhamdullilah..all pray to ALLAH for this..okay,enough of that.So year end is approaching,in what,..say less than 2months..bila kenang2 balik all this while new year resolutions or whatsoever yang plan masa awal tahun selalu end up xkesampaian..dah secara automatiknya akan di carry forward to the next year wishlist a.k.a resolutions or dream..anything you call it..but it is  still something yang you nak achieve within a year..

Why am i actually rambling about new year resolutions n all?It is simply because,i've just went back from a programme that is motivational in a way that it insipred me to work through achieving my dream/goal..owh,my baby boy is now a healthy 5months plus baby..he's development is quite normal mcm baby lain*i think so,because the BS doesnt tell me a weird or abnormal story*..so,dia sekarang memang pantang etak atas permukaan yang rata,lembut n spongy..dia akan mula praktis meniarap..golek2 n such,..itu belum lagi mula membebel..atatatattatata.tah hape2 yang dibebelkan nya..*ikot sapa lah tu*mummy's eye  is drooling..hahahha..

Then he started screaming *it's sooo unlike a boy* unfortunately nothing much i can do about that..it happens that he's copying my BS's daughter*..i one told him,pretending that he could understand me..''syg mama,boys dont scream..but girls does'..of course being a 5mths plus infant apa yang dia boleh buat except for continue screaming until i gave him his milk..huhuhuh

what else,..haaaaa so there's a lot of things happen recently..it all happens since i masuk kerja balik after 60days of maternity leave*private should also gave 90days maternity leave so that we(new mummies) will be ready enough to leave our baby to nursery/babysitter n such*..mana taknya,first day masuk kerja..memang takleh fokus keja langsung..i tell u,..no focus at all..naadaa,..until the point of we just wanted to go back ..n do nothing but stares at pc's clock..which is so not recommended when you have other staff watvhing over you indirectly..there goes,job rotation,..restructuring n all..am now in my new role/task/position..okay,same position..different department,different salary but.of course same company...unfortunately*okay,am sorry but i have my own plan boss*

well,..since this is more or less an introduction post..let just cut it short la kan?..above all those ramblings..i'm back people*bajet retis la konon,padahai bog ni cam note alam maya saja*..till then..tata everyone..goodnight


p/s: the only time i have now to update blog is after my baby boy went sleeping* usually the time he goes to sleep is the exact same time i'm asleep* for those who knows it's a mother thingys.. ha ha

when boss is not around

Hello everyone,..feeling good?yeah!i can feel you..hahaha..my bos wasn't around today so i've decided to 'hegeh2' a bit..hahaha..if he's around i would be all stressed out...*dahla macik dah sarat..tak larat nak berkejar-kejaran ke bilik bos okeh*..anyway,..been sleepy lately, due to the not-so comfort condition..* yes, when you're 9mths pregnant, everything you do would definitely be a not-so-i-like situation *

I'll be having a whole busy weekdays now..till i actually finished up my pending task..* been praying for an early delivery tho*..reasons being are, am too stressed out,..plus the never ending works..even i have to take care for everything..* adoi! seems that everyone is pushing me to..right to the edge*..*double sigh*

I even dreamt about my works,man..this is something that i've used to face back then when i was in my previous company..hahahah never thought that i'll having those nightmares again..owhh!ya talking bout my boss which is currently not around.my big boss..the other day,somewhere last week i was silently humiliated by him..* because he's the kind of person who doesn't talk that loud and that much*

One fine evening,..it is actually past working hours,around 6.30pm..while i was struggling to finish my works,replying emails,bla..bla..he came into my room and pass me a  STAR newspaper..i stare at him bluntly with a blur face..then he said.." for your English improvement,..your English has become worst since you came here.."..i was like..okay,..i nodded my head and said yeah,i know..then he continued..this is the harsh part "..teribble,..without the guilty face..ewah2..who's he think he is...i admit that my english wasn't that great..hey!that's why i'm trying to blog in English rather than pure Malay..i wanted to improve my usage..anyway,..i felt soooooooo humiliated..* luckily i was alone in my room *

Haihh..i was grumbling all my way back while telling my husband about the humiliation..huh!!menyampah!just because i'm not like him..i never fly overseas doesn't mean that he's better than me..*okay,i know he's still better than me because he's my boss else i will be her boss right??*but stilll...

Okay, enough of that unpleasant and unhappy story..kinda sleepy still tho my hand is exercising throughout this blog writing..hihihi i guess have to take some nap during break,else i'll be damn tired weh..ok,ciaooo

p/s: some colleague asked me yesterday..when will your maternity leave start?*sigh* i wish my maternity leave starts now..*ameen*

Happy Mother's Day

As salam and a very good and relaxing sunday to all..it's a mother's day to..i would like to wish my mum,Pn.Saadiah Hanafiah for her love,cares and esp bring me to the world..i luv you mum!*hugs and kisses*

Anyway,me myself is on my way of becoming a mother..so i bet i would be receiving the wish next year..ahahha..ok, enough of that insanity,..i guess it's not easy for a mother to raise their children..i wonder how those days when most women can actually gave birth to 10,12 children..mm..my answer would be, those days not many women works, so they are actually a full time housewife doing all the house chores..so they can fully concentrate on being pregnant again.. and again..but nonetheless, my mum..she is a working housewife..she still managed to give birth to 6 children..while she's working..me?not sure yet...*sigh*

So in this very beautiful Sunday, i wish all the mum in the world a happy mother's day..no one can ever replace a mum..*i bet even daddy can't be a good mum*..

p/s: starving now,i guess i my baby is hungry as well

*image from google

a busy,hectic and all good news & stressful things jumbled up together weekdays

Assalammualaikum dan selamat malam semua..so, why post about weekdays when it's already weekend?..seriously,i should've talked about something relaxing..it's weekend by the way...tapi daku nak juga post something to sum up the rest of my weekdays..

Ok, it started when last week after wednesday*of course,since my last post was on wednesday*..i've started to clear all my pending tasks, important stuff n all..last week was my 34th weeks,so for those who have experienced pregnancy they may have started their maternity leave whatever not,..but me?still struggling to clear all my tasks and hey,guess what my boss have yet to tell me who'll be my replacement..so how am i goin to take my maternity leave peacefully then??*cry out alout inside*..anyway,..then come this week,..

I was struggling again* yeah, this few weeks been very challenging to me,esp on work*..then everything turns out to be very stressful yet blissful..announcement made on thursday,confirming that we'll be getting our bonus for 2011 on saturday..atlast,some goodnews apart from those hectic workloads,etc..etc..

So, here i am now sitting infront of my luvly levy grumbling aout how my weekdays has been hard on me* sigh*..anyway, am so happy that today i've got myself what i want after so longgg..*hihihi*..ya,..it's a celcom broadband modem and that could actually helps me lessen my workload after this..*now that am able to work from home,which is worse i guess*..have a goodweekend everyone..hope you'll enjoy your weekend as much as i am..sayonara..


p/s: been busy for the past 2weekends on shopping for our baby 

it's been a while...

Salam dearies,..bersarang dah blog makngah nih..huhuhuh..semuanya penangan little baby inside me..nywez,i'm back now..chewah!hope so too!!..becuz of my word,akhirnya diriku inih dah terkena..haaaa tu lah orang tua2 da pesan,makan bole sebarang makan,cakap takleh sebarangan sih.. when people told me their sickness stories,i was like...okayyy..it'll happen only morning..since it's called morning sickness...then i was okay,insyaALLAH i can deal with it kot..*note to self,dont overconfident cuz u might not know what's in store for u dear*

Then it finally happened to me..until i cant even get up from my bed..huhuhuh.. it happens as early as subuh,..then continued till dhuha..then stop before zuhur,then continue again from Asar to Maghrib..it it goes on and on..all the fatigue,nausea,weak feeling..hopeless and etc..not to mention the back and forth visit from panel clinics to the hospitals..dripping and oh!!ya..the long 'holiday' from work..*not a good one though*..and a pile of mc's from clinics..huhuhuh

While i was struggling each time my sickness hit me, hubby was so patient enough to 'layan' me..i was blessed!!!now i know why we are made for each other darling.. *tears & hugs* so dears,if you wanna know how much your hubbies luvs u wait until u're pregnant...then you'll know..

Then i was like a chipsmore biscuits,in the office..now you see now you dont...ahaks..everyone show their concern which makes me wanna cry..huaaaaa..i guess the hormonal changes does affect me..during this period, all my like and dislike is actually changing..i luvs western food,fast food,spicy foods,coffee,lots more...i hate/no really like rice,tea,chocolate flavored bread/ice cream/food..now everything turn up side down..i begin to hate coffee,the smell of it makes me dizzy n nausea..l like tea..all kind of teas..owh and yaaa i can eat chocolate flavored bread/bun now as compared to before pregnancy..

My colleague told me,that must be what your baby likes then..mmm,..i can actually eat rice 3times a day now..as breakfast.say hello to nasik lemak...then hi to nasi campur and also nasi putih with tomyam as a dinner..i guess my baby is juz like his/her dad kot..my hubby favor all kind of nasi over a western food..could it be a baby boy??hihihi who knows...

Anyway, since my early pregnancy stage until now..i've been dreaming a lotsssssss about having a baby...1st it was a baby girl...then a baby boy...i guess i think about it too muchhh too much that i dont wanna care whether it's a boy a girl anymore...YA ALLAH i hope my baby turns out so healthy and well and also dengar cakap to his/her mummy..that's all

That's pretty much about my recent updates..shall continue later ya!let's just hope my sickness will go away very soon..INSYAALLAH..

p/s: my work is piling up@the office i do hope that i can work as normal after this..AMEEN

Weekend activities

Assalammualaikum and good monday morning everyone..Hope you have a good weekend,cuz i had..it's tiring..but excited tho...from Serdang,seri kembangan to Kuang,Selangor...

Let's see some of the related..or nice pics i've taken,.

Freshly baked Portugese Egg Tarts..my new hobbies...or should i say interest... ;p

Kain batik pakai from Kelantan...for those who's interested to buy can contact me..-While stock lasts. The best thing is this kain batik is a ready to-wear sarong..no need to send to tailor for jahit tepi or whatever not ye? :) Selling for RM17/piece.Pick up @ Bangi/UKM area/komuter station only..

Last but not least...

blue team, chelsea perhaps?

the end

P/s: please leave your email address@ comment box if you're interested to buy the sarong from Kelantan. i'll contact you soonest i can.Thanks

Wordless Wednesday

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p/s: let show some love

BEBEL

Assalammualaikum semua..hari ni nak bebel pasal bebel..kalau masa kecik2 dulu,mak ayah bebel kt anak-anak almost everyday untuk setiap menda..

Kain baju balik sekolah sepah2 di lantai,kasut sekolah sepah depan pintu tak bersusun,stoking busuk di campak atas sofa tgh laman umah..tupperware bawak nasik goreng pagi2 pun di simpan buat tukun lam bilik...haaaa..macam2 lagi lah..pendek kata mcm2 yang parent bebelkan..belum masok result peksa yg kadang corot,kadang ok..pun kena bebel

Bila dah masuk U, mak ayah bebel lagi...bebel bila anak tak dpt 4 flat*betoi ke idak ejaan tah..bila cuti semester, masing2 jadi penggangur terhormat(sebnornye tade org hormat sikit pun)..mana taknya, bgn pukul 12tgh hari trus makan, tade sikit pun rasa besalah tak tolong mak ayah ngemas rumah, ato lain2..bgn je makan, mandi tgk tv,ato keluar jumpa kawan ato mengadap tenet 24/7..

Bila dah habeh blajo, duk umah pon kena bebel kalo tak carik keje..dah ada keje,mak ayah bebel jugaks sebab tak sampai ujong bulan dah S.O.S mak ayah mintak bantuan kewangan..haihhh nasib bdnlah jadik manusia ni ye..asek kena bebel ajer...dh lama keje,sepatutnya simpan duit..tuk kawin ke macam2 lagi..tapi idak,di enjoynye tak hengat donia...maka dptlah bebel lagi bila nak kawin parent kena support lagi...ishhh,ishhh ishhhh
yang perempuannya,kalu nak kawin tapi xpandai masak,ngemas,etc( semua kriteria yg kena ada pun kena susah juge ye)..mana taknye,kalu time bujang kena bebel dgn mak sendri,idakle runsing sgt,kalo kena bebel dgn mak mertua?haaaaaaaaaa..maunye makan dalam..ahaks

okla..itu aje kot..

p/s: bebel tanda sayang

Dilema seorang perempuan,isteri,ibu,pekerja dan semua yang bergelar wanita

Salam Syawal..tetiba rasa nak membuat satu ulasan*sebnarnya lebey berbunyi luahan rasa yg tak berkaitan langsung dengan bulan merdeka raya ni*..apakah sebnarnya dilema yang dihadapi oleh kaum hawa ini??..Sebagai salah seorang ahli kaum hawa ini, mohler makngah nak share sket dilema ato simptom-simptom lepas raya bagi seorang perempuan...

Dilema lepas raya yang pertama2nya..PERUBAHAN FIZIKAL
selepas raya, hari pertama bekerja..mulalah terasa baju kurung makin longgar( ini +ve effect utk org yang telah berjaya melalui bulan puasa dengan kesabaran dan ketahanan iman yang tinggi-kes nk beraya pakai baju kebaya yg vogue)..atau yg sebaliknya boley berlaku adalah baju kurung,seluar baju semakin 'shrink', atau fizikal telah berubah akibat pemakanan lemang,ketupat n rendang tanpa had,diselang-seli oleh pelbagai perasa kueh raya,..

Secara tidak langsung membawa kepada dilema kedua iaitu..GANTI PUASA( ato POSA NAM d bulan Syawal)..melihatkan kepada dilema pertama inilah,maka timbulnya idea untuk terus puasa ganti di bulan Syawal,termasuk juga nak dpt pahala puasa setahun bagi yang berpuasa 6 hari di bulan Syawal..aaaa, tang dilemanya adalah..time posa ganti inilah macam2 undangan openhouse, jamuan hari raya bakal diterima,...bertambah2lah dilemanya..

Next is,bagi seorang isteri..dilema MALAS..(termasuk masak,ngemas dan lain2)raya seminggu merupakan hari cuti masak,mengemas*ini hanya applicable utk perantau yang beraya dikampung masing2 dan mertua*..kerana balik dr kg,kenalah memasak dirumah sendri..(mengakui kebenaran hakikat ini ye adik2)...
Bagi pekerja pula,ini applicable untuk lelaki dan perempuan yang telah mengambil cuti raya yang panjang adalah dilema KERJA YG TERTANGGUH..huuuhhuhuh..oleh itu,jgnlah cuti raya lama2 wahai adik2..kerana kerja itu memang akan 'membiak' dengan pantas skali...

Ini dilema yg paling ultimate untuk semua orang yang balik beraya,mempunyai anak saudara,cucu sedara,mak sedara,ayah sedara,ipar duai,etc...dan yg memberi duit raya,dilema BAKI AKAUN  TIDAK MENCUKUPI..iyer adik2,bila sudah puas beraya,maka bila kembali ke alam nyata, semuanya adalah pahit..sebab itu omputeh kata reality bites,ouchhh!!..jadi harap2 utk semua yg membaca..baki akun masih mencukupi sampai next gaji..kalo tak,maka silalah penuhi semua undangan openhouse untuk sepp bajet dan ngelat dari kena masak..hohohoho

ini je kot dilema yg terdaya dipikirkan,sapa2 yg nak share dilema sila2lah..sharing is caring, ;P



p/s: mula mencatu pengambilan kuih raya kesan daripada kenaikan berat badan yang mendadak*makngah insaf*

L.A.M.B.A.T

Hari ini merupakan hari paling lambat dalam bulan Ramadhan ni..semuanya lambat,org lambat sampai opis..lambat pulaks nak habehkan keje..lambat laks masa nak balik ni..hantar email pon lambat dapat reply..

Waktu berbuka pon lambat lagi..kenapa suma mende lambat ni?adakah sebab jam satu dunia dah dilambatkan?atau mungkin penglambatan ini adalah disebabkan kelambatan sesetengah lambat-lambat yang berkait rapat seantero dunia..*maaf atas kesalahan tatabahasa yang tidak dapat dimaafkan ni*

Semalam makngah pon tdo lambat,sebab bako kueh yang dirasakan agak 'menjadi' berbanding kueh raya-raya lain..tapi kueh beli tatap lawa..yelah kalo xlawa takdenye mau org nak beli..huhuh

Jadi,oleh kerana waktu balik masih lambat..makanya,lambatlah makngah sampai umah petang ni..maka lambatlah nak packing baju balik kampung..
Belum lagi sentuh bab lambat sampai kampung halaman dek sebab jem...haihhh sumanya berkisar lambat
Jadi entri hari ini tajuknya pon lambat..

Sudah2la tu membebel,kang lambat settle keje...lambatlah sampai umah ye adik2

In the name of Raya...

Ola everyone..chewah!as if thousands are reading my ramblings..anyway,..bila sebut raya,macam-macam orang sanggup buat,spend,etc...ada yang sanggup berhutang,ada yang sanggup overspend ada yang biasa-biasa saje..owh..one more thing,ada yang sanggup berhimpit2 dalam tren( yg pengsan lam tren pon ada okayyy ) bahana pegi shopping di Jalan TAR pada hujung minggu...*sape yg terasa tutup telinga* ahaks..

Makngah juga termasuk golongan yang sanggup itu,tapi kategori lain lah..kategori kuak kupu2 gitu...sanggup bersengkang mata berjaga membakar kueh raya yang tak berapa jadik..muauahahahaha

Not to mention yang sanggup beratur panjang di bank selama berjam2 untuk tukar duit raya,maka dengan itu sesape yang masih mendapat duit raya sila bersyukur sambil menadah tangan memanjat kesyukuran okayyy..sebabnya tidak ramai yang sanggup bersabar dengan sebegitu panjang line ye?..itulah kelebihannya bulan puasa..hihi

Bagi makcik,kakak,adik, dan kaum wanita umumnya..bukan main lagi baju raya...ada yang bling2,ada yang sulam chiffon..cotton english,korea bangladesh..suma ada..belum lagi tudung nya,..kalau boleh nak pakai tudung ala2 celebrity..Ariani lah,Ratu lah...ishhh rupa2nya kerana raya macam-macam boleh beli * makngah angkat kening ala2 Ziana Zain sebab terasa pedih ulu ati termakan kata2 sendri hohoho*

Semakin nak raya,semakin lagu raya siang malam terdengar sana-sini..tempat makngah kerja pon hari2 pasang, dari pukul 8-5petang.player tu kalau boleh bercakap..mungkin akan berkata.."oh,manusia..sudah2la tu..aku dah nak muntah berwarna pelangi dengar lagu raya"..dalam banyak2 lagu raya,lagu yang tatap menjadi pojaan hatiku adalah lagu nyanyian Arman Shah,tajuk lupa...tapi antara liriknya adalah seperti ini ye adik2.." Bergema suara takbir di angkasaaaaaaa...lalalal" mode nyanyi dalam hati sebab tidak mahu dilabel sebagai kaki karoks tak bertempat

Sedar tak sedar sudah panjang yang dimengarutkan pasal raya ni..sudah2 lah tu..sebabnya sebelum cuti raya,kena siapkan kerja..jadi untuk itu..masing2 silalah..habiskan apa2 yang patut..hihihi

p/s: mata pedih2 macam mata baby bagi signal tanda mengantuks..